Broaching the subject of miscarriage is difficult, but, let’s do it anyway. Miscarriage at any stage is devastating and my heart goes out to all mamas that have had this experience. I grieve with you.
I’ve had three miscarriages and each one has brought about a different set of emotions. However, there has always been one constant. Blaming questions. Was I getting enough sleep? Was I eating the right foods? Could it have been the heavy object that I lifted? Was I allowing myself to let the stress of life get to me? In the end, it’s not helpful, but my mind always goes there.
And then there is the looming question: Will I ever get pregnant again, and if so, will I be ready physically and emotionally?